eczema

when it rains, it pours...quite literally :-) the snow is finally washing away, and i hate being at home all day...so even if it's just a quick walk to starbucks, i get my daily "outing".

today's outing was to eileen dailly for the parent/infant drop-in hosted by the fraser health authority. since gabe doesn't see the doctor until his 4 month shots, i jumped at the opportunity for his 3 month weigh-in...my boy is a healthy 13 pounds! every week there's a different topic...today it was sex after pregnancy. 'nuff said. we'll go back in a few weeks for the infant nutrition discussion :-)

i also took the opportunity to ask the health nurse about gabe's skin condition. he's had an ugly red bumpy rash that keeps appearing all over his chest and belly. fortunately it was still visible this morning and they confirmed it`s eczema. what a relief...i was worried it could have been an allergic reaction to something i ate...and i'm not too keen on changing my diet! so now we've got a stronger cream to use on his skin to help with the dryness...my poor little butterball :( my next task is to find a baby comb and work on the dry skin on his scalp...yuck!

3 months old!

our little monkey is 3 months old today! he's grown so much :-)











and now he's caught his first cold :( it's been spreading through the families since pre-christmas, hitting me over new years...and now gabe's got a runny nose. poor little guy...i thought something was up when he wouldn't nap in his bed a couple days ago. i've had to hold him for hours on end to comfort him through naptime. last night was a "rough" night...he kept fussing in bed so the baby monitor would keep waking me up...not sure if i should check on him or let him cry it out, he would settle down after a few minutes. lucky me!


he's also had an interesting 2 days of no poop. since i've heard of other babies who haven't pooped for days and days, i'm letting it pass as nothing major. we're going to the parent/infant drop-in this week for a weight check so we'll see what happens in the output department by then :)


hopefully his cold will pass quickly...i had plans for us starting this week...storytime at various libraries and music classes. at the baby fair i bought "the family book" and discovered a free gymboree class we can attend...gabe's still on the young side to actually be interested in activities, but it's another opportunity for us to get out of the house and meet other families in our 'hood.

farewell 2008, hello 2009!

2008 - my year in review:

january
we're off to tofino for my belated bday celebration, and a last hoorah with nugget! after the tofino weekend we find out we're pregnant! and the prenatal bloodwork begins :P sadly, we say farewell to my grandma t.

february
we say farewell to nugget, who is released from the PADS program :( 3 weeks later we welcome icon into our home :)

march
march 13 - heard baby's heartbeat!

april
i develop prenatal sciatica and we say farewell to icon after 5 weeks :( chiropractic adjustments, physiotherapy and massage therapy begins. april 26 - our first ultrasound - it's a boy!

may
due to the sciatica my work hours are reduced to 4 hour days. may 11 - mother's day - i feel baby move for the first time!

june
we switch to midwifery care at pomegranate. birthing from within classes start. we puppysit beau for a weekend - so nice to have a dog again!

july
we puppysit holly for a weekend. july 16 - 2nd ultrasound...baby looks good :)

august
swimming at eileen dailly - hoping to turn baby around and strengthen my back. attend new & green's cloth diaper infosession. hospital tour @ burnaby general. puppysit caber and mc the PADS fundraising walk. prepared our birth plan with our doula, roxanne. baby showers @ work and with friends. august 29 - last day of work...whoo-hoo!

september
puppysit jolie for a day. playing the waiting game! pauline & geram's wedding. carseat installation inspection at bcaa. deptember 17 - our 3 year wedding anniversary. september 23 - due date comes and goes. september 28 - PADS graduation ceremony...still pregnant. september 30 - accupuncture to try and induce labour.

october
october 3 - the induction starts. october 4 - gabriel arrives via c-section! lots of visitors at the hospital! october 6 - we bring baby home! october 7 - back at the hospital for a biliruben test...gabe has jaundice. october 9 - visit the pediatrician...biliruben levels are much lower! gabe's first holiday - thanksgiving! new & green 2 week cloth diaper kit. anthony & alice's wedding. physiotherapy for my hands - it never ends :P

november
we start using cloth diapers! baby fair - lots of free stuff! gabe's one-month party at kirin :)
november 9 - i leave gabe with chris for almost 3 hours. my 6 week check-up with the OBGYN - clean bill of health. november 21 - NKOTB concert!

december
prenatal reunions. 2 month shots :( a christmas playdate! PADS holiday party. baby masssage class. gabe rolls over! gabe's first snowfall, christmas and canucks game!

welcome 2009! i'm looking forward to more of gabe's "firsts" this year and perhaps a few puppies in our home :-) i don't make any resolutions because i can never keep any of them :P whatever 2009 brings me, i embrace with open arms! after all...what can be more challenging than pregnancy and childbirth?!

let's roll :-)

i'm still not sure if i believe it or not. yesterday during gabe's tummy-time, he managed to roll over! he was showing off his strong neck muscles and looking around for a full minute, when he somehow gained momentum and started rolling onto his right arm. after observing the world on his side, he decided to continue the roll and ended on his back! typical, i had no camera or vcamera close by, so it's just my word against gabe's :-) however, i think it was a one-time deal...he hasn't done it since :P

later he surprised me and chris by doing something else new! as i was getting him ready for his bath, gabe stuck his tongue out at me...and never put it back! i kept trying to move his lips and push his tongue back in, but he kept popping it back out. nice game, huh? then to top it all off, he kept sticking his tongue out during his bath as well! being the good parent chris is, he stuck his tongue out at gabe and imitated him :P

ah, the joys of parenthood!

an accomplished thumb-sucker!

birthday mama!

such a busy (and long) day we had. yesterday sandra and i celebrated our 31st bdays with our friends and 5 little babies :-) celebrations have turned into daytime activities...with bedtime routines it's harder to get together for late nights.

to continue my bday celebration, we took gabe to his first canucks game. thanks to his great grandma and auntie arlene, he was all decked out in canucks gear :-) unfortunately his outfits are a bit big yet, but he put up with mom's antics! some of the noises at gm place surprised him, but he did well and didn't cry! he even managed to sneak in a 10 minute nap during the 2nd intermission :-) it was also our first "long-haul" in the ergo carrier...i fumbled a bit trying to get gabe in, but with chris' help it worked out fine. when gabe graduates out of the newborn insert, i think it'll be a lot easier.

and speaking of late nights...the boys just HAD to play mahjong after the game. my poor little monkey was so tired...he already has a late bedtime routine as it is, but being out and trying to get him to sleep just wasn't happening. oh well, late nights are a rarity for us, so once in awhile we can tackle an upset monkey :-)

christmas in pictures

christmas eve on my parents balcony...i believe gabe's expression says "WTF am i wearing mom?!"

surrounded by his presents, 5 minutes before he fell asleep

a christmas smile!

sleeping with cousin max

visiting gabe's great-grandma and aunt arlene

the lok family (minus mom who had to work)

the 16 pound ham and 18 pound turkey!

with cousins brianna & bethany, and finally proud grandpa!

merry christmas!

HAPPY HOLIDAYS
from the Lok's :-)

let it snow!

the weather hasn't been my friend today...we were supposed to be out for lunch and dinner, but thanks to the snow everything got cancelled. so we bundled ourselves up and headed for a walk in the snow to pick up groceries. i've decided there should be snow tires for strollers...it was like driving a car...we hit some skid marks, we veered off onto the grass a few times, and when we had to blaze our own trail, we got stuck :P oh well. gabe was none-the-wiser and slept for most of the walk.

(all bundled up...don't worry, i did cover him with both hoods and a raincover!)

while we still don't have a daily routine, i've started to recognize the need for naptime. on monday, after being up for almost 5 hours, gabe was just a devil! i've never seen him so cranky before, but i've learned my lesson. on tuesday my little man took 2 naps in his bed. and he's asleep right now, too! he'll be well-rested for our evening of trevor linden celebrations :-)

i've never been a morning person...until now. after a 9 or 10 hour sleep gabe is well-rested, and if i catch him at the right time, he's so happy to see me and gives me lots of smiles :-) yesterday i got all teary-eyed because he gave me smile after smile, it was so exciting! i tried to get a picture of him today, but he's not a big fan of the camera first thing in the morning so i only got one smile.

it's christmas-time!

such a busy week we've had...setting up gabe's bank account and RESP (i think he's richer than me :P), prenatal reunion, pete's birthday, shopping on commercial drive, aunt mary's birthday celebration, chiro, 2 month shots, visiting chris' "office", nora's christmas playdate and the PADS christmas party! phew, i'm exhausted :-)

i was really anxious about gabe's 2 month shots...i didn't know if i was strong enough to be in the room with him, so chris came along. turns out, i was fine...and so was gabe :-) i brought along a small bottle of milk and he started drinking as the injections went in. the first one he had absolutely no reaction; after the second shot, he started crying and gave up on the bottle. by the time his fourth shot was done, he was howling! oh i felt so bad for my little monkey, but i managed to not cry, and gabe managed to finish his bottle, and then i topped him up myself. i was a bit worried in the afternoon because he slept for 4 straight hours...very unusual...but once he woke up, he didn't stop crying. poor guy...his left leg was completely swollen and tomato red. my dad was convinced it would be a long night for me and chris, but fortunately by bedtime, everything was back to normal and gabe slept his normal 9 hours!

wednesday was a great day...during tummy-time, gabe fell asleep on the playmat so i managed to put him in his basinette for a 45 minute nap! it's the first time he's done that for me...usually he cries and wakes up when i put him down during the day :P after he was much refreshed we had a playdate at nora's house :-) good times! gabe was holding onto one of the toys on nora's playmat and was loving it. i'm going to add some links to his toys so he can grab them at home. to end the day, we headed off to the PADS volunteer xmas party. it was great to see all the volunteers, and gabe was a big hit! i think he garnered more attention than the dogs did!

say cheese!

gabe is 2 months old today!


the newest development over the past few days is smiling! yup, our little guy has started to smile at us :-) his first smile was at his great-grandma (above). he's smiled at least 3 times that we've witnessed, but the camera's never around when he does it. hopefully he'll become more predictable with his smiles and we`ll be able to capture it!

he`s also starting to make little noises...it`s so cute. we`re not sure what he`s trying to tell us, but we`re listening intently.

i`ve finally realized that gabe`s flaking scalp is due to cradle cap. i was surfing the internet and found an easy natural remedy...a 15 minute scalp soak with olive oil before his bathtime. we`ve done it twice on him, and noticed a slight improvement. i also bought dimpleskins avocado soap to wash his face and hands. i`ve only been using warm water until now, but his skin`s been drying out, and he gets a bit smelly from the vomit :P the soap has helped a lot...followed by aveeno baby lotion. i don`t think i`ve been moisturizing him enough...he`s definitely inherited dry skin from both me and chris :P