Thursday, March 04, 2010

17 months old!


i can't believe in another month, gabe will be 1.5 years old! chris and i were just discussing today how fast time has flown by. some days travel at a snails pace, especially the last week with everyone in our family (including the grandparents!) being wiped out by the cold and/or flu blug.

gabe's developing at his own pace, slower than i would've thought compared to other kids (i've even factored in the boy vs. girl growth). on the other hand, he's mastered one of the most important skills that some 3 & 4 year olds can't grasp...potty-training! he's a super-star at signing "poo", but recently he's gotten it mixed up with "pee" (which we don't actually sign), so we've been spending A LOT of time back-and-forth in the bathroom. with the stomach flu, i've been so fortunate that gabe's been able to do his business in the potty...no diarrhea diapers in our household!

gabe's speech has been the slowest development...at 17 months old, he only says "mama" (which still doesn't always mean me) and "no". on the other hand, he knows what he wants and the "no" has come in handy for that. instead of saying "yes", he claps his hands together (we're not sure how that came about). he's developed a new sign for himself that we can't quite decipher. he usually only does it when he's sitting on the potty, but he's quite insistent that we follow through on something (it's related to the door, but it has nothing to do with opening or closing it). even though gabe doesn't talk, we've been really emphasizing his manners (through sign language). whenever he wants a treat, we always ask him to say "please". and before he's excused from the kitchen table, he always says "thank you for food". when he's at my parents house, my mom will sometimes use japanese expressions. i don't expect gabe to learn japanese (my knowledge is non-existent), but i like the fact that he hears the occasional word.

gabe loves to colour. he knows exactly where his drawing accessories are kept at home (and at my parents house), and he'll go over, point, and clap his hands. we're trying to encourage the use of his right hand, but he still favours his left. we'll see how that turns out :-)

music class has always been a big hit! he sits in class and taps his legs, claps his hands, and loves to play instruments. after the "hello" song, we always "drum" on the mats, and gabe's the only child who yells out w/excitement when it's over. it's pretty funny and everyone gets a kick out it :-) since the winter session started in january, gabe's shown his first fear...he is terrified of the parachute! as soon as it's out and the kids get under it for the rippling and waving, gabe makes a bee-line for the wall, paces back and forth, and starts signing "all done, all done!".

thanks in part to music class, gabe's learned to put things away. he used to throw a fit when it was "shakers away" or "instruments away", but now he'll go to the baskets and put them away. he sometimes tries to take them back again but we'll have a little chat and go back to our seats. at home he likes to go into our bathroom and empty my basket of various bottles and place them on the windowsill. afterwards, i'll ask him to put everything away and close the cupboard. it always puts a smile on my face watching him do this simple task.

gabe's a tv junkie. as soon as we turn it on, he points, claps his hands and wants to watch ni-hao kai-lan. we try to save that for when i'm cooking and can't have him hanging around the kitchen, but because of the sickness and gabe needing cuddles with me, we've been putting the tv on more regularly. gabe's also become very proficient with the iphone...he knows how to turn it on and slide the arrow across the screen and will try to enter chris' password, he also enjoys "the wheels on the bus" and can do all the actions that go along with it.

gabe's a climbing monkey! he loves to sit on the couch, and then crawl onto the couch arms and then he leans back a bit too far and falls off :P i usually hold onto his feet to prevent the fall, but sometimes i'm just not fast enough. he's also climbed onto our ottoman many times and of course fallen off that too. we turned it around so he can't climb it, but he's figured out how to maneuver it around.

our strong boy is hilarious. we have a lot of pull-along or walking type toys. when he was learning to walk, he never used them. then for the longest time he refused to use them properly...instead he would actually lift everything off the ground and then walk around with them. he's only just gotten interested in his walker and uses it the proper way. ironic. nowadays he's more interested in moving the kitchen chairs around or carrying his elmo chair.

3 more weeks till we go to vegas, and then my boy'll be 1.5 years old! he's definitely not a little baby anymore :(

Sunday, February 28, 2010

again?!

i'm still sick. i cannot shake this damn cold...my nose is still snotty, and today i woke up and had no voice. but it could have something to do with all the yelling and singing @ deutsche haus the previous night (more on my olympic experience another time).

on a happier note, my head has finally cleared up and i can hear out of both ears! as i'm finally recovering, chris and gabe have both been hit with a wicked stomach flu. i've spent the entire day cleaning up gabe's vomit - from the carpet, the playmat, and after 2 outfit changes (for BOTH of us), i finally left him in his diaper to minimize the damage. thank god he's potty-trained...i don't know what i would've done if i had to clean up the diarrhea from his cloth diapers :P

so now i'm spending a day or two "working from home". not only have gabe and chris been suffering, but my mom's caught it as well so we've lost our babysitter. it's just as well i'm staying home...gabe's gotten really attached to me the past few days and won't let me out of his sight.


i can't wait for life to be back to normal again. it feels like we've been sick since the beginning of the year :P

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

no more snot

blast man...gabe's been suffering from a cold since last monday. it started out pretty slowly...just a hint that something wasn't right at night. but then he'd recover by morning. then he would cough during the day and then nothing at night. after a few days, he was a dripping faucet and a complete mess. we've gone through 2 boxes of kleenex and my back is in pain again. gabe's been uber-clingy to me and demands to be carried...by me...standing up, not sitting down. even during potty time, he sent chris out of the bathroom in favour of me :P

after cancelling several plans over the past 9 days, gabe's finally recovering. his nose has stopped leaking, and he's not coughing as much. sadly though my parents have caught his germs, and chris and i are popping pills like crazy in an effort to stay healthy for our olympic events next week...curling & hockey, baby! go canada go!

Thursday, February 11, 2010

Sunday, February 07, 2010

olympic buzz

ok, i've gotten caught up in the olympic buzz. well, until friday at least when i see how my commute to/from work goes :P then i might be singing another tune!

on this dreary (typical) vancouver day, we headed downtown to check out the activities since chances of us taking gabe during the olympics are pretty slim. we started at the olympic store and bought our canadian sweatshirts to wear to the curling & hockey events (hopefully we'll be cheering on canada at some point!). then we checked out the action on granville mall (which wasn`t much). and lastly we headed over to robson square to check out the ice rink, where we saw elizabeth manley on the ice and talking with reporters. and while we were at robson square, we were interviewed for cbc radio!



to finish off our downtown jaunt, we enjoyed our first japadog! delish! i can`t wait to try the other ones next :-)

Thursday, February 04, 2010

24 hours ago...

...gabe was bitten by a dog. a pomeranian to be precise.

initially we weren't too concerned...the dog had clamped down on gabe's wrist, but doug (my sister-in-law's bf) seemed to receive the brunt of the bite (he was bleeding) when we separated the 2 of them. gabe wasn't bleeding (he had bite imprints) and he recovered after a quick hug and kiss from me (moms CAN fix anything!). so we carried on with the evening and headed home for gabe's bedtime.

that's when we discovered the blood :(

in the panicked moment of the incident, no one thought to check for bite marks from the dog's bottom teeth. seriously, we were 4 adults in that kitchen and no one thought of it. right after discovering the cm long wound i called the bc nurses line for advice, especially since the initial bite imprints were looking more like pin-prick puncture wounds. the nurse and i both agreed that none of the wounds were emergency-warranted especially since gabe wasn't displaying any negative side effects, plus we thought the dog's vaccinations were up-to-date. the nurse did suggest seeing a doctor in the morning just to get the all-clear. chris and i concurred. then i had to call my parents and break the news they wouldn't be babysitting in the a.m. since gabe and i would be heading to the doctors office. seriously, as if i didn't feel bad enough for gabe, my mom freaked out over the phone.

at the nurse's suggestion i checked on gabe before i went to bed and he was sleeping soundly. but at 12:30 a.m. gabe's sleep-shattering cry woke me up and i went running to him. i've never seen him so upset before...he was standing in the middle of his crib, arms extended and shaking, and his little face was all covered in tears. on a normal night, i would've let him cry-it-out but i truly believe he had a nightmare and relived the bite incident :(

this a.m. my parents came over and we went to the walk-in clinic to get gabe's wrist looked at. i can't believe how much guilt i was getting from my mom - she was barely speaking to me! it was an accident that happened before anyone could react. her big issue was we weren't 100% sure the dog`s vaccines were current...the 6 year old dog had been adopted by my sis-in-law from a family friend. that was just adding fuel to the fire my mom was building. not once did i trivialize what had happened to my son, and i was getting upset at my mom for trying to make me feel worse. at that point, we just stopped talking to each other.

the doctor looked at the wound and said because it was a superficial wound and we thought the dog`s vaccines were current, he didn't want to put gabe on antibiotics. he sent me off with warning to keep an eye on it and make sure it wasn't bruising or starting to look infected. heck by this morning, everything was almost healed up! so off we went with a semi-clean bill of health :) my parents dropped me off at the skytrain and they went home with gabe.

then it got worse.

15 minutes later i got a call from my mom...gabe threw up. that was the final straw...i was starting to lose it, and 2 tears welled up in my eyes. i called chris and yelled that he needed to find out about this dog's medical history. i told my mom to call our family doctor and see if he would see gabe right away and i'd meet them there. i didn't know this but if you see a doctor during the day, you cannot see another doctor the same day. msp won't pay for the 2nd doctor's services. so i had to call the drop-in clinic we had just visited and the receptionist directed me to the bc nurses line. the nurse reassured me that the vomit could be a completely separate issue from the dog bite. phew, what a relief (even thought i wasn't pleased it could be a virus)!

our doctor's office also called and agreed that it was probably not related to the dog bite and just keep an eye on gabe. after lunch i finally got the last piece of news that the dog's vaccines are all current and he's a healthy boy. thank goodness! i was able to relax and breathe a sigh of relief. it's still strange that gabe vomitted, but he's been fine the entire day. so it's just a one-off incident.

me and my mom however...we still weren't exactly on talking terms by the end of the day. we don't have that kiss-and-make-up relationship, rather we just stew for awhile and eventually get over it. i do see why my mom was so upset, it's a terrible thing to have happen and it was somewhat preventable (gabe and bobo won't be playing together again!). but on the other hand, it was an accident...just like when gabe rolled off the change table; just like when he dove off the couch and bruised his cheek; just like when he fell and bruised his eye on the coffee table; and just like all the other injuries he'll sustain in the future!

but for now, gabe's acting like his normal self, i've stopped blaming myself for the incident, i'm letting my moms comments roll off my back (because damnit, I AM A GOOD MOM!), and we're ready for life's next lesson, whatever that may be and whatever form it comes in!

BRING.
IT.
ON.

Thursday, January 28, 2010

jinxed!

i definitely jinxed myself w/my last post re: gabe's stellar behaviour at cru. we took him to earl's for dinner and it was horrific! i packed snacks and water for him, but i forgot his book and stacking cups. oh lordy lordy...gabe was miserable! nothing was keeping him happy...he didn't want to sit at the table, he didn't want to eat, he didn't want to walk, he didn't want to watch the hockey game, on and on. he was wailing his head off!

and then my food arrived. cheeky monkey helped himself to my french fries! and then he stopped crying. he sat nicely at the table. he remembered his manners. he smiled.

we never intended to allow gabe to eat junk food once he started solids. but sometimes you just do what you have to do to get through a meal. and so we could actually have a moment to chat with our friends, chris was a genius and found "ni-hao kai-lan" on you-tube! thank goodness for ipods!

@ cru

Monday, January 25, 2010

exhausted!

blast it all, i'm exhausted! it wasn't an overly busy weekend, but definitely a lot of eating out...i didn't have to cook at all! the foodie highlight was definitely on sunday...we had a family lunch at hi-genki and dinner @ cru w/friends. i was highly anxious about how gabe would behave because i had taken him to milestone's the day before and it was a bit of a gong-show :P it was his 2nd time in a higher-end restaurant and as other diners left, they commented on how well behaved gabe was :-) he had a few outbursts but from excitement and not tantrums. phew!

i've (sort of) set a goal for myself. i don't want to call it a new years resolution, cuz i know i'll break it within a month. it's an attempt at a lifestyle change. sort of. after i stopped nursing i didn't realize how much weight i'd re-gain (and so quickly :P). i'm not going to diet (cuz i'm terrible at that), and i'm not going to pay to join fitness classes (cuz i'll just bail after 2 attempts), but i will start using our gym facilities at home. i've decided to be really ambitious and exercise before work in the hopes that i'll have more energy throughout the day. so far, i've done it 2 days and i've never been more tired :P my challenge is to train my body to be asleep before 10 p.m. so i can get up by 5 a.m. ugh!

again, i'm not setting any goals like i have to lose 10 pounds in 2010. i'm just trying to be a bit healthier and hopefully in the process strengthen my back and core. (weight loss would just be a bonus!) now that i've thrown this into the blogosphere, i'm hoping it's motivation to keep going and not falling off the wagon by month-end! :-)

Monday, January 18, 2010

sprize...it works!

it's a welcome sprize!

45 days ago, i spent $76.50 at baby gap, and am pleased to find out that i've been rewarded with $34.94 on my sprize card. yippee! i like getting money back :-)

happy monday!

Saturday, January 16, 2010

push my buttons

this is one of my (many) pet peeves:

when you're waiting for an elevator, and somone else comes along and pushes the same button you've pushed. seriously, did you not see me standing there waiting for the same elevator? was the illuminated up (or down) light not a clue that i've already pushed it? do you think the elevator is gonna come any faster when it's been pushed two times? or perhaps the elevator really does like you better than me. yes, that MUST be it!